![]() ![]() However, nobody just drops off the face of the planet for weeks at a time. ![]() You should never beg people to stay in your life.Įveryone’s lives become hectic at times. I can now focus my energy on those who truly care. I feel less worried about people who don’t matter. This realization took me a long time to reach, but it was definitely worth my time. However, when a new friend responds instantly for weeks, then suddenly stops responding (but still posts on social media), I know that they have no interest in our friendship. When I text someone in my small circle of friends, I know that they will answer eventually. Now, I can tell when someone is genuinely busy versus when they don’t want to be a part of my life. I didn’t have the self-worth back then to realize when people treated me poorly. These “friends” were trying to break up with me. But now, I see that I didn’t take the hint. This happened with other friends before, and for a long time, I justified their actions and told myself that they’re just busy. I see pictures of everything he’s doing without me all over social media. That night, he said, “I promise it won’t be three years until we see each other again.” Needless to say, I haven’t seen him since, but I know that he still socializes with my other friends. Then, I saw this friend at my 25th birthday gathering. We spoke every day until suddenly he stopped reaching out. I can remember one friend in particular who stopped talking to me. Then, those “friends” stop putting effort into our friendships and allow years to pass before we speak again. I’ve asked myself this question multiple times over the past few years. “Is your friend really busy or just trying to avoid you?” ![]()
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